Thursday, November 20, 2008

A few days ago my husband died. It was a shock. I feel like my entire world was spinning out of control then came to an abrupt stop. I can't...


*Update* Thank you, thank you, thank you to everyone for your kind words. They helped immensely!

53 comments:

niobe said...

Oh, Ruby. I am so, so sorry. I don't even have words for this. You have all my love and you are in all of my prayers.

familyoftwo98 said...

I am so very sorry. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

angrycanrn said...

I am also very sorry for your loss.

I lost my husband suddenly last year. If you need any help navigating stuff that needs to be done, feel free to send me an email.

Please don't forget about Social Security Survivor benefits. There is a small one time payment, but then if your husband paid into SS through a job, you might be entitled to his benefits.

Again, I'm so very sorry.

Kathy

Jen said...

I am so sorry. You will be in my thoughts.

Leah said...

I am so sorry. You will be in my prayers.

elizabeth said...

I am so sorry.

Newt said...

Oh no. Oh no no no. I'm so sorry, Ruby. So very sorry.

annacyclopedia said...

I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband. I will be keeping you in my prayers.

I Believe in Miracles said...

Here from L&F to offer my sincere condolences. I'm so sorry.

Vanessa said...

This is my first visit to your blog-Im so sorry for all your losses, my heart breaks for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Delenn said...

From L&F - I am so very sorry for your loss.

t said...

here from LFCA and i'm so sorry for your loss.

loribeth said...

Here from L&F. I am so sorry. :(

Laura said...

I am so very sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers..

MrsSpock said...

I am so sorry for your loss.

Tash said...

Ruby, I'm just in deep shock to hear this news. You're in my thoughts, and in my heart.

Queenie. . . said...

I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.

Fiddle1 said...

I'm here from L&F, and I am deeply, deeply sorry for your loss.

alicia said...

here from L&F, I am so sorry, I have no words, I am praying for you.

Karen said...

I am so very, very sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Michelle said...

You are in my thoughts and prayers. Words can not even express how sorry I am.

katedaphne said...

You are in my heart. I'm so very sorry.

katedaphne said...

You are in my heart. I'm so very sorry.

Emily said...

I am so very sorry...

Dreamer4agift said...

I am here through LFCA...

I'm so sorry. So very very sorry.

Adrian n Tashida said...

I am so sorry for your loss. (((hugs)))

battynurse said...

I'm so very sorry for your lost. Be gentle with yourself. Hugs to you.

Angel Mom said...

Oh, Ruby, I am so very sorry. I just don't even know what to say. My heart is absolutely broken for you. I'm sorry. Love and prayers, Hon.

Heidi said...

I am so very sorry for your loss.

Cassandra said...

Oh, I am so very sorry.

nancy said...

I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending you all the thoughts/prayers I can.

twondra said...

Here from L&F. I'm so sorry sweetie. You're in my thoughts and prayers during this horrible time. (((HUGS)))

Carole said...

{{Ruby}} I'm so very very sorry. Thinking of you...always.
~Carole

Tracey said...

Ruby! No words. No words other than... I am so so sorry. SO sorry.

You have had so much tragedy, my friend... I send you my love...

supermommy said...

My thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Stephanie said...

This is my first visit to your blog. I'm at a loss for words. I know nothing anyone says can heal your heart, and I know that "I'm sorry" is not nearly big enough. But I am so so sorry. My heart breaks for you. I pray the Father will give you peace and rest in this tragic time. We may not know each other, but you are not alone. You're in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I had more to offer...

Dana said...

I found you via Tracey at Just another mommy blog. Ruby, my heart goes out to you. I cannot imagine the grief you must be feeling at this time. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Mrs. S said...

Oh Ruby, I know I don't know you but I'm so sad for you. My prayers are with you continually.

Beckie said...

Dearest Ruby, I found your blog through Tracey and her Just Another Mommy Blog. I'm so sorry you have had a full plate of heartache and I'm so sorry and so sad to read of the loss of your husband. I don't know you but know that I will be praying for you.

Jennifer said...

Ruby,
I came across your blog at random. I really don't know what to say, other than i'm praying for you. I can't even imagine the heartache you must feel. May you feel comforted by friends and family during this time.

~Sheila~ said...

You have never heard about me and this is the first time I have visited you and I just want to say that I am soo very sorry for your loss. It must be very hard for you right now. I can't even imagine.

Carole said...

I can't begin to understadn what you are going through. I will Pray for you and your entire family. May God be with you!

Melissa said...

Oh my! My heart aches for you. I pray God's comfort during this difficult time. There are no words...So sorry to hear of this news!

anymommy said...

I can't even imagine this pain. Another friend of Tracey's visiting to say, I am so very sorry.

Kristin said...

Prayers and very tight hugs from my family to yours.

SWIRL said...

{{{hugs}}}}
so sorry.

Leah said...

My prayers are with you and your family.

JamieD said...

I am so sorry. I with there were words I could say to comfort you but know you are in my thoughts.

Tracey said...

Still thinking about you, dear...

Angel Mom said...

You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

Mike said...

Everything will be OK.



Mike
http://somethingaboutparenting.typepad.com

A simple being said...

please know that i will pray for your heart and that you can somewhere findthe strength to live these days for them.

Mike said...

Are you OK?


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